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Letter to the Conscientious Corgi-Walker

I hope you take note of my letter of thanks, as I've taken note of you.

 

Dear Welsh Corgi Lady,

For the better part of this past year, I have seen you and your furry companion, walking around my neighborhood. You have probably been walking these roads much longer than I have been paying attention. Now that I am aware of you, it seems I see you at least once a week. When I haven't spotted you in a while, I find myself wondering where you might be.

I remember the first time I took note of your routine, I was walking my own dog on Congress Street and the two of you were up ahead of us. You had a bag with you that I assumed was for your dog's business, but that wasn’t what it was for at all. You were sauntering along, picking up pieces of garbage from the sidewalk and stuffing them inside. Wrappers. Cans. Paper. On that day I assumed the lawn you were tidying up was your own. I breezed by you on the road and didn’t think of it again...

...Until I saw you a few weeks later, walking an entirely different road. Picking up garbage along a completely new stretch of sidewalk.

I’ve seen you on Rosenfeld and I’ve even seen you on North Vine. Always with your Corgi leading the way and you with a small bag of picked up trash in hand.

It’s amazing to me. You are amazing to me.

In a world that is increasingly “me” oriented, where we all keep close track of “who does what for whom” and what we’re “owed,” there you are. For whatever reason, you have decided to make the places you frequent better for all of us. It’s not your candy wrapper or your McDonald’s cup, but you pick it up anyway. It’s not your job. You don’t get paid. There’s no chance of recognition and no award in it. Who does that anymore?

Aside from this bigger social picture, it simply warms my heart. Your act is inspiring. It's how I want to imagine my community, filled with people like you. It's how I'd like to evolve myself, because even what looks like a small deed, makes a difference. Acts of kindness don't always have to be coordinated mass events, they can be simple and helpful. 

And not that you need it, but I wanted you to know that I noticed and thank you for your everyday kindness.

I’ve thought about approaching you. Considered ways of talking to you that don’t involve me freaking you out for fear that I’m some strange stalker. I wanted to run a picture of you with this letter but of course, since I've been actively looking for you, I can't bump into you anywhere.

But I’m hoping that you read Patch. Or, someone you know, reads Patch. I hope they recognize this description of you and they send it your way. 

Today, I will complete a good deed. And tomorrow I will do it again. Thanks for the inspiration.

Deanna

About this column: There are some things I really love about Milford that you should know about. On those weeks, I’ll rave. Then there are things that leave “little to be desired," as my grandmother would say. Those would be the rants. It won’t be difficult to tell the difference. I’ll write it like I see it. Related Topics: Dog Walking, Inspiration, and small deeds

janie

12:00 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

It is great to see you do the good deed of noticing this woman's good deeds!

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Kathy

12:12 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Bravo! for both people! one for doing it! The other for noticing, taking time to share and paying it forward!

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Danielle Horn

12:16 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

This column makes me happy. My dad does the same thing, and I couldn't be prouder.

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Deanna Runeman

1:08 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

I think we may have a lead on our mysterious Good Samaritan. I'll let you know when I find out for sure!

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Lisa Phillips

1:23 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Made my heart warm to read this great and inspiring article. :)

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Thomas OLoughlin

6:05 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

I believe that the person you see is Mrs. Evelyn BonTempo. Evelyn loves Milford so much that even on her daily walks she tries to make it a brighter and cleaner place for all of us. Thank you Evelyn!

Tom OLoughlin

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Joann Smith

7:03 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Joann Smith

6:46 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

I no longer live in Milford, but I know Mrs. Evelyn BonTempo. She was my son's CCD teacher. She had the classes at her home. She's a very,very, LOVELY lady. I can see how she would do this. Thank you Evelyn, for trying to keep Milford clean .

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Milford Senior Man

8:26 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

There's a man who lives in Shadowbrook Condo's and walks his two beagle dogs there every day and while he walks them he does the same thing. He picks up trash and puts it in a bag and then to the dumpster. A nice thing to do.

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Ralph

8:33 pm on Tuesday, April 10, 2012

God bless them. The sad thing is, there's always trash to pick up.

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mom of one

7:30 am on Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Evelyn does do this as well, god bless her - but she does not have a dog!

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