I'm not a bio mom (a term that we stepparents use to describe a woman who gives birth).
It's my understanding, though, that pretty much all bio moms can have difficulty placing their young child for the first time into the care of another—even when that other is a capable, caring, professional who may actually have more experience caring for a child than the mom herself (daycare workers, teachers, grandparents).
That's pretty much where I'm at right now, on the eve of handing over this website to a new editor. Milford Patch is my baby and I've never given up control of it. Not even for a weekend. Not even for a day.
I've been promoted to associate regional editor for Patch MetroWest Boston, a region that includes Milford, Framingham, Grafton, Holliston, Hopkinton, Marlborough, Natick, Northborough, Shrewsbury and Westborough, and will eventually include Ashland and Medway.
Taking my place in Milford will be Mary MacDonald, a seasoned journalist who most recently worked for nearly a decade at the Atlanta Journal Constitution and got her start in community news.
To some of you, particularly those who've discovered Milford Patch in recent weeks, it may seem a bit dramatic for me to be writing a borderline-weepy "good-bye" when I've been running this site for five months. What's five months in the scheme of things?
Here's some perspective: it's 676 published articles, 376 of them created by me. It's 842 directory listings, and thousands of e-mails from the community. It's hundreds of introductions and hundreds of hours working on this site and loving (almost) every minute of it.
Being a Patch local editor has given me a sense of accomplishment I'd never had in my journalism career. It has been an amazing feeling each time I've met someone who tells me they love Milford Patch and visit the site every day, because five months and one day ago, the site didn't even exist.
I'll still be overseeing Milford, and I may fill in from time to time and write some stories, but the site will be Mary's. And in another five months and one day, she will have been here, putting her imprint on the site, for longer than I have been.
That's kind of tough for a writer such as myself to take (all of us have egos), but isn't parenting about being selfless?
I know Milford Patch will continue to grow and thrive, as will Patch.com as a company. It's a pretty cool thing that we're doing here, and we'll only get better.
I'll be the proud parent, beaming from the sidelines.
Laura Chapman
6:20 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Not to worry, you have given your baby strong legs to stand on. Congratulations on your promotion.
bob nargi
7:47 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Good Luck Danielle.. You've earned your promotion .. My walking bud and I look forward to "The Patch" each day as along with the mundane there are some interesting, and at times, hilarious comments here. Thanks..and again good luck in your new capacity.Bob Nargi
Lisa Vasile
8:20 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations Danielle! It's been awesome watching Milford Patch grow and obvious you deserve your promotion with the amount of energy, compassion and work you've put into creating the strong resource.
Michelle Garber
8:56 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations Danielle, I have loved the Patch since the day I discovered it - best wishes for continued success!!
Rebecca Zarella
9:26 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations Danielle!!!!
Michael Raleigh
10:48 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations Danielle! Good luck in the new post.....but NOW where am I to turn for music recommendations?!! Take care!
Danielle Horn
10:59 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Haha thanks, Michael, I'll still be here, though, just more in a creeping/stalking sort of way because what I'll be doing will be behind the scenes. :-) Post notes on my profile anytime! Music recommendation of the day: Remy Zero.
Deanna Runeman
11:09 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Well deserved! We'll all miss you (especially me). And it's not stalking if you REALLY care!
Karen Raleigh
11:19 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Happy for you, sad for us. Congratulations on your promotion!
Mendy
11:31 am on Monday, March 14, 2011
Danielle, you have a lot to be proud of!
In the bigger scheme of things you've been upgraded to GRANDMA (a younger version, though!)! Which means you can shower the grandkids with junk-food, and not feel a tinge of guilt! :)
We look forward to working with you in your new roll!
As we say: Mazel Tov!!!
Keith Regan
12:32 pm on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations, Danielle, both on the creation and evolution of this site and the promotion--and good luck with all those meetings : )
Great job making a sad face in the picture, too. But ... is there some hidden meaning to the "44"? If I hold it up to a mirror, will it tell me secret message like the cover to the Police Synchronicity album?
Danielle Horn
12:46 pm on Monday, March 14, 2011
Haha, you know, when I saw that picture up there this morning on the site (I set it to go last night), I thought, "That makes absolutely no sense." You're of course familiar with the policy that each Patch article must have a photo, and that was the "Patchiest" one I could find. It was taken last fall in NYC, where we had a conference..right before we went out on a Patch scavenger hunt. My team was number 44. We lost. But the sign is green so it made this column.
Jonathan Capece
3:26 pm on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations Danielle!
Kelly O'Grady
4:06 pm on Monday, March 14, 2011
Hi danielle, Just as I enter you r leaving:( good luck and hope to see u soon
Janet Billings
5:04 pm on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations Danielle - I'm sure you'll continue to do great work!
Heidi Zizza
8:30 pm on Monday, March 14, 2011
Congratulations! You surely deserve it! You have been wonderful to work with.